Can't join servers I previously joined

I started playing this game again about 9 days ago and found a pretty decent server. I stayed and played on it for about 3 hours then logged off. The next day when I tried rejoining the server I was met with "Joining World" for abput a solid 5 minutes before I tried force quitting and restarting the game. Same thing. I tried looking it up and found several reports on it but 99% of them were on PC. O finally found like 3 reports on xbox (Im currently on xbox series x) and tried them, which were deleting the reserved data and relaunching the game, reinstalling the game, moving the game from internal storage to external and back, and even changing the DNS server. I tried all of those around 10 times each, hoping for a better result each time only to be met with the infinite "Joining World" screen. I thought it had to do with something someone else said where if you log off while in space it takes a bit of time to rejoin the server so I waited upwards of 2 hours to try rejoining to no avail. Im able to select other servers and join them but once I leave them, even if only being in them long enough to load in and press quit, I cant rejoin those either. Ive sent in 2 in game reports because someone said to do that but havent heard from anyone about that so Im trying here instead.